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<!--Generated by Squarespace Site Server v5.11.81 (http://www.squarespace.com/) on Tue, 29 May 2012 19:38:52 GMT--><feed xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/"><title>Blog</title><subtitle>Blog</subtitle><id>http://refugehsm.com/blog/</id><link rel="alternate" type="application/xhtml+xml" href="http://refugehsm.com/blog/"/><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://refugehsm.com/blog/atom.xml"/><updated>2012-05-14T20:38:39Z</updated><generator uri="http://www.squarespace.com/" version="Squarespace Site Server v5.11.81 (http://www.squarespace.com/)">Squarespace</generator><entry><title>Who's guilty?</title><id>http://refugehsm.com/blog/2011/11/2/whos-guilty.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://refugehsm.com/blog/2011/11/2/whos-guilty.html"/><author><name>Refuge High School Ministry</name></author><published>2011-11-02T19:42:09Z</published><updated>2011-11-02T19:42:09Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p>In a recent conversation with a well intending parent they passively mentioned to me that they would just like their student to "get it." I put the pieces together and figured that by "get it" they actually meant that they wanted their kid to have a perfect faith, make perfect grades, respect them, and desire to be at church every time the doors open. So who's guilty?</p>
<p>In a converstation with a student not long after that, they complained that they just wanted their parents to stop pushing everything on them and allow them to make their own choice about what they believe. They were frustrated and felt like they didn't have enough freedom to make their own choices about going to church. So who's guilty?&nbsp;</p>
<p>Somewhere in the midst of the parent-student tension lies the Youth Group. Everyone thinks it is the responsibility of the youth ministry to turn out spiritually mature and well rounded students who love Jesus, like we are the local candy factory. Sarcasm warning: it is as easy as adding a little sugar, providing some heat, a little yellow and green flavoring, and walla, perfect Jesus loving student. Well, since it isn't actually that easy, who's guilty?&nbsp;</p>
<p>When we take a quick look as some statistics, we see that somewhere in the neighborhood of 95% of all student who regularly attend church as Junior High and High School students will leave the church after they graduate. So, without throwing the entire model of "youth ministry" out the window, who's guilty?&nbsp;</p>
<p>In a culture that hates to take personal responsibility for the choices we make and how we live, it is not at all surprising that everyone seems to be playing the blame game. Parents and students alike will at some point blame the youth ministry for not being good enough or spiritual enough or for feeding the students to much pizza. Parents will blame the student for not caring or having any sort of conviction. Students will blame their parents for making them go to church at gun point and forcing their religion on them. And people will even have the nerve to blame God for not making their life perefect or answering their prayers; as if we are entitled to a state of perfection. So, who's guilty?&nbsp;</p>
<p>While I confess that I used the "who's guilty" question to get your attention, I think a better question is, who is reponsible for the spiritual transformation of students? Ultimately, the answer to this question is pretty easy, we have to all take responsibility for our own spiritual transformation. Meaning, thanks to the grace of God, we daily choose whether to pursue God or ignore God. &nbsp;</p>
<p>In a perfect world, which clearly doesn't exist thanks to our human depravity, we would all work together cohesively when it comes to spiritual formation. God has the largest role of all for apart from Him this wouldn't be a converstation, students have the second largest role because they have to choose to want it, parents have the huge role of encouraging their kids and raising them in a way that points them toward God, and youth group has the role of helping to equip them in how to live out their faith.</p>
<p>We all need to start taking responsibility for our own spiritual transformation and stop playing the blame game. I am pretty sure that when you stand before God at the throne of Judgement and He says that He never knew you, you are the one that is going to be responsible. It is time to start taking responsiblity!&nbsp;</p>
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<p>&nbsp;</p>]]></content></entry><entry><title>Tension</title><id>http://refugehsm.com/blog/2011/10/28/tension.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://refugehsm.com/blog/2011/10/28/tension.html"/><author><name>Refuge High School Ministry</name></author><published>2011-10-28T21:01:55Z</published><updated>2011-10-28T21:01:55Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p><br />Let me quickly clarify something before I begin. I am not one for major qualifiers nor will I apologize for what I think, but as you read this post you might find yourself disagreeing. I am great with that as this is merely a platform for free flowing thoughts and you can feel free to share your own opinions and questions. My hope is that we never settle and we never stop asking questions of faith and God. There are two sides to every coin, it would be foolish to think my side of the coin is the only right way to view reality. So here it goes.</p>
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<p>When we hear the word tension we often think of personal tension, meaning, being in a constant state of stress or an excruciatingly uptight person. This is not the same type of tension that I am thinking of. When I think of tension I am more referring to a state of disequilibrium or the relationship between two seemingly contrasting realities.</p>
<p>The funny thing about tension is that we hate it. Just the other day I went for a bike ride and when I got home my bike computer read 20.9 miles. Almost automatically, I found myself riding circles in the parkinglot until it said 21 miles even. At which point I was satisfied, the tension was gone, and I could proceed into my apartment before the neighbors wondered what I was doing. It is also funny how this plays out in relationships. There is nothing worse then relational tension, the proverbial elephant in the room. This is especially true with the people we love.  Some of us have enough pride to fuel relational tension for some time, but after a while the tension will eat away at us and we will seek restoration for that relationship.</p>
<p>We don't like things that don't add up and we struggle to function without all the i's being dotted, the t's being crossed, the numbers being even, and our relationships being right. Our culture seems to be more like a liquid, seeking to find perfect equilibrium in life. While it is healthy and encouraged to not have relational tension and to ride your bike until it reads 21 miles even, this reality has a tendency to find its way into what we believe as well.  We have to have an answer to every question and be able to explain everything perfectly. We have to have evidence to support our ideas and everything has to add up. So, when we are faced with tension in what we believe, we have a tendency to either run and hide or pull a Billy Graham and bust out an eloquent speech to convince ourselves and those around us that everything adds up perfectly.</p>
<p>The truth is that we start to really struggle when we come across realities in our faith that we can't explain. For example, we know that Jesus was 100% God and 100% man. Well, I am no math major, but last time I looked, that equals 200%. So, if you believe in the Deity and Humanity of Christ, which is foundational and essential to being a Christ follower and the one major thing that separates Christianity from all other systems of belief, you are going to have to be ok with a little tension.</p>
<p>While I was in bible college, the final class I took was an overview of all the different areas of theology. Try as we may to create statements that brought clarity to what we believed, we often sat in the tension of belief and explanation. We couldn't fully explain everything we believed and it was that professor who let us out of the prison of tension by giving us the three most freeing words of all time, "I don't know." After four years of pursuing all of the answers and finding that we had more questions then before, this was the first professor that gave us the freedom to say, I don't know. You see, if we could explain everything, what role would faith play in what we believe? The bible says "The fundamental fact of existence is that this trust in God, this faith, is the firm foundation under everything that makes life worth living. It's our handle on what we can't see. (Hebrews 11:1 MSG) not only is faith a handle on what we can not see, it is also a handle on what we can not explain or understand.</p>
<p>On the other side, tension can not become and excuse to stop pursing God and truth, as it is easier to say I don't know, then it is to actually seek the truth. While tensions may be the thing that makes it hard to truly believe in God, for me it is the opposite. It's the tension that keeps me pursuing my relationship with God every day. For I know that the God I serve is both perplexing and unexplainable. I can seek God every minute of everyday and never fully know Him. I would want it no other way.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>]]></content></entry><entry><title>When The Norm Isn't Normal.</title><id>http://refugehsm.com/blog/2011/10/6/when-the-norm-isnt-normal.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://refugehsm.com/blog/2011/10/6/when-the-norm-isnt-normal.html"/><author><name>Refuge High School Ministry</name></author><published>2011-10-06T21:08:06Z</published><updated>2011-10-06T21:08:06Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p>From time to time I am blindsided by the reality that what used to be a normal thing, is no longer normal. Or there is a new normal that is now defined by what is culturally acceptable. The crazy reality is that if we look at normal, it is more like a fluid then a block of ice. It is continually morphing to fit what is comfortable, easy, convenient, and socially acceptable. Here is what I mean.</p>
<p>While recently tuning in and out of a baseball game that was already over by the fifth inning, I came across a commercial that intrigued me. This wasn't because there was stuff blowing up or because it was a beer commercial (which are often worth watching for their stupid humor). In fact, it was a very poor commercial for an airline that was promoting its inflight wifi. What was intriguing was the plot that they used to promote this new advancement in flying technology! The scene was set with a mom having a conversation at home with her daughter about school and laughing about life. It took only about 10 seconds for it to transition to that same mom sitting on an airplane instant messaging that conversation to her daughter, full of lol's and haha's. The cultural message was clear... IM has the same relational value in our culture as sitting in a living room and talking about life. Meaning, there is no value for relationships in our culture.</p>
<p>This to me was one of the most clear and obvious ways that a very influential airline could slap the value of relationships in the face. It shows that the norm is no longer the normal. In a lot of ways though, this is the extent of relationships within the home. They are condensed to short IM style conversations that are void of any meaning, value, depth, or worth. The sad reality is that while there has never been an age in the history of the world where we are more able to communicate and connect, there has also never been an age in the history of the world where we have had to deal more with the reality of loneliness, insecurity, and a lack of belonging.</p>
<p>So, while the world is telling us that we can avoid relationships and still be connected, the old norm should tell us that if we want to actually feel connected, we should probably put down our cell phones, close our of our IM, minimize our video chat, and actually sit down and talk face to face. After all, being connected on wifi does not equate to being connected relationally, regardless of what our world is trying to sell.</p>]]></content></entry><entry><title>The Summer in Review</title><id>http://refugehsm.com/blog/2011/8/18/the-summer-in-review.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://refugehsm.com/blog/2011/8/18/the-summer-in-review.html"/><author><name>Refuge High School Ministry</name></author><published>2011-08-18T20:11:14Z</published><updated>2011-08-18T20:11:14Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p>The Summer is over!!! School is starting, or has already start, parents are more then excited to bring back a little<span class="full-image-float-right ssNonEditable"><span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/pages/Refuge/208135300243?sk=wall" target="_blank"><img style="width: 275px;" src="http://refugehsm.com/storage/253861_10150624577400244_208135300243_18979829_4567042_n.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1313699942769" alt="" /></a></span><span class="thumbnail-caption" style="width: 275px;">Freshmen Welcome Party | June 7th</span></span>&nbsp;routine to life, and all of the great summer events are done! As we look back at the summer, it seemed like it just started! However, there were a lot of great events and a ton of relationship that were created this summer!&nbsp;</p>
<p>We kicked the summer off by welcoming all of the incoming freshmen into Refuge! The Freshmen Welcome night was a great way to get all of the incoming freshmen plugged into Refuge and invited to spend the summer getting to know all of the current students. The event itself was a bit hectic, but it served it's purpose. The freshmen were welcomed and the summer could officially begin!&nbsp;</p>
<p>From there, our first official summer event was The Luau! A Refuge favorite, the Luau features lots of Hawaiian food (including the most delicious and moist pulled pork sandwiches) as well as tropical fruit and a plethora of fresh fruit smoothie! The night was warm, the <span class="full-image-float-left ssNonEditable"><span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/pages/Refuge/208135300243?sk=wall" target="_blank"><img style="width: 250px;" src="http://refugehsm.com/storage/263143_10150642869385244_208135300243_19186327_5651173_n.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1313699870352" alt="" /></a></span><span class="thumbnail-caption" style="width: 250px;">The Luau | June 14, 2011</span></span>students were enjoying the festive atmosphere, and most of all, the incoming freshmen were starting to feel like they were are part of Refuge! A night of great food, fellowship, swimming, and volleyball was concluded with an epic relay (which didn't go well, but was still entertaining) and the most clasic of all Luau activities. The LIMBO! When everyone was full, tired of each other, and mostly done with ukuleles playing in the background, it was time to call it a night!&nbsp;</p>
<p>The summer would continue with a few Summer in the Tent's, which was our attempt to help develop relationships and at the same time keep it at a familiar place. The first one, which was supposed to be a water day, but the only water we saw was coming out of the sky. It was cold, wet, and nasty outside! However, we compensated by getting a warm fire going, playing a never ending game of dodgeball in the tent, and just enjoying each others company! After a few more weeks of Summer in the Tent, we took a week away from the Sacramento area and headed to Oregon for High School Summer Camp!!</p>
<p>The week was absolutely life changing! God worked in powerful ways and students responded in powerful ways! (If you haven't read it yet, you can check out the complete <a href="http://refugehsm.com/blog/2011/7/28/summer-camp-recap.html">Summer Camp Recap</a>). It was a week full of great memories, powerful worship, incredibly life changing truth, cold rivers, a little rain and a little sun, and long periods of time in the car. Once we returned from camp we were on the down hill side of summer.&nbsp;</p>
<p>The following week we showed one of the best movies of all time "How To Train Your Dragon" on a 12ft x 7ft<span class="full-image-float-left ssNonEditable"><span><img style="width: 350px;" src="http://refugehsm.com/storage/299567_10150755185055244_208135300243_20234099_2649613_n.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1313702654461" alt="" /></span><span class="thumbnail-caption" style="width: 350px;">Rivercats Game | August 2nd </span></span>&nbsp;screen for our annual Outdoor Movie Night! The weather was perfect, the students filled up the grassy area outside Evers, and we all enjoyed the popcorn making skills of one Michael Rogers. The night was perfect.&nbsp;</p>
<p>Several weeks later, we all took a treck down the river and hung out to enjoy (I use this term loosely because not everyone actually enjoys baseball) a wonderful game of baseball. It wasn't even as much about baseball as it was about just spending time building relationships, laughing at the crowd control lady that crossed her arms and scowled at us, and consumed some crazy overpriced food. It was a beautiful night, capped by an 8-6 Rivercat's victory, and a very long trip back to the church!&nbsp;</p>
<p>A few more weeks of freedom lapsed before we got ready to<span class="full-image-float-right ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://refugehsm.com/storage/185233_10150755988520244_208135300243_20241953_3849353_n.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1313702667669" alt="" /></span><span class="thumbnail-caption" style="width: 200px;">Beal's Point | August 16, 2011</span></span>&nbsp;close out the summer with a BBQ at Beal's Point on Lake Folsom! While the mood was a bit depressed by an imminent return to school and loss of freedom, it was bolstered by the sun, hot dogs and burgers, friends, warm water, volleyball, kan jam, and getting violently thrown off inner tubes! It was the perfect way to end summer and conclude a few months of fun activities, life changing events, and great opportunities to build new relationships.&nbsp;</p>
<p>From the beginning of summer, the biggest thing we wanted to do this year was build intentional relationships through fun events and intentionally help the freshmen get plugged into Refuge. I would have to say that we accomplished both!! The students did a great job of intentionally connecting with each other and we have an incredible group of students who are all ready to start the fall! It may mean that school is in session, but we can always look forward to Tuesday nights, Sunday mornings, Life Groups, and so many more great opportunities to connect with each other!</p>
<p>If you have any memories from the summer, good, bad, or ugly, then share them below by clicking the "post a comment" button!&nbsp;</p>]]></content></entry><entry><title>Summer Camp Recap</title><id>http://refugehsm.com/blog/2011/7/28/summer-camp-recap.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://refugehsm.com/blog/2011/7/28/summer-camp-recap.html"/><author><name>Refuge High School Ministry</name></author><published>2011-07-28T18:57:53Z</published><updated>2011-07-28T18:57:53Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<h3>High School Summer Camp&nbsp;</h3>
<p>It was a few days before we were going to leave for Summer Camp and the buzz was all OREGON! Everyone was excited to see the new place, since most of the group had never been out of the "friendly" confines of California. However, there was also a since of hesitancy from some of the students, mostly because of how poor last years camp was at Sierra Pines. So we entered the week with eager anticipation, which was met at the door by a fear of the unknown!&nbsp;</p>
<p>After a quick 6 hour drive we arrived at Mountain Lakes Bible Camp on Sunday evening and were greeted by a kiss<span class="full-image-float-left ssNonEditable"><span><img style="width: 300px;" src="http://refugehsm.com/storage/285543_10150725047620244_208135300243_19846102_6036303_n.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1311879501461" alt="" /></span><span class="thumbnail-caption" style="width: 300px;">The Trip NORTH!</span></span>&nbsp;of God's divine creation. The air was cool, but the combination of fresh mountain air, pine trees, and being in the absolute middle of nothing, was enough for the anticipation to continue to build with the students. Most of the students and leaders looked around and tried to figure out whether everything I told them was actually true. Some checked out the field to see if there really was grass, some ran straight for the cabins to see just how "rustic" they were. Others just got to work as we had a lot to do that evening to get ready for the camp to start on Monday morning. The list of to do's was long, but the drive and focus was unmatched.&nbsp;</p>
<p>While many of the students go settled into their cabins and ran off a little traveling energy (including an incredibly technical game of kick-ball in the dark), the worship band got to work. While lots of hands make the work light, we spent the next several hours setting up, running chords, getting the sound, video, and lighting all set up and practicing for the week ahead! After months of preparation and planning, the time had now come for camp to begin.</p>
<p>Monday morning came fast, since most students couldn't shut their brains down until well after midnight. Some cabins were lucky to get any sleep (a theme that would continue throughout the week). However, everyone was bright eyed come 8 AM! An extravagant continental feast of cereal, including the likes of Coco Puffs, Rice Krispies, and Honey Nut Cheerios, greeted us in the Dinning Hall!</p>
<p>Over the next several hours everyone else arrived for camp, including another group from Sacramento and<span class="ssNonEditable full-image-float-right"><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img style="width: 400px;" src="http://refugehsm.com/storage/HS%20Camp%208x10%202.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1311879764211" alt="" /></span></span><br /></span><br /></span>&nbsp;many students from around the Klamath Falls area. All in all, 92 students and around 20 adults were all rested up and ready for a fantastic week of camp. The only disappointing thing was that we were blessed by a bit of Northwesterly weather as the rain had come to join the party. While the rain would hang with us for the next several days, it had no impact on the excitement of all the students as camp began!&nbsp;</p>
<p>We had our typical welcome chapel, which consisted of a few songs and our ever friendly "welcome, glad your here. Don't be dumb and we won't have to have any 'you were dumb and now we have to send you home' conversation" talk. &nbsp; They must have listened, because apart from a few small problems, no one was sent home and no one was sent to the hospital. A few were sent to Kevin Jones to get fixed up, which is as good as a visit to your local hospital, only without the $1000 bill and lack of customer service. &nbsp;</p>
<p>The day continued with a delicious lunch, impossible camp picture, and few classic field games, including Flag Tag<span class="full-image-float-left ssNonEditable"><span><img style="width: 300px;" src="http://refugehsm.com/storage/284079_10150725058475244_208135300243_19846357_4024827_n.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1311879780115" alt="" /></span><span class="thumbnail-caption" style="width: 300px;">Yes, this is a hot dog.</span></span><span class="full-image-float-left ssNonEditable"><span><img style="width: 151px;" src="http://refugehsm.com/storage/224543_10150725052600244_208135300243_19846235_2204556_n.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1311879811163" alt="" /></span><span class="thumbnail-caption" style="width: 151px;">"YOU'RE OUT!"</span></span>&nbsp;and Ultimate Hot Dog. While most students assumed that games with Football Flags and Hot Dogs would be lame, they actually looked like they were having a good time!&nbsp;</p>
<p>After the field activities it was free time! The pool was available (though empty on such a cold day), the snack shop was hopping, the climbing wall was open, sling shot paintball was in full swing, and students could do leather art and games in Dinning Hall! Other were content to get a group of students together to play volleyball, shoot hoops, or just take a nap. All in all, we were all hungry and ready when dinner rolled around at 6 pm! Never had home made pizza and salad seemed some good!</p>
<p>After fueling back up, it was chapel time! "Tara and The Boys" as Jeremiah "the speaker" called them, led a great time of worship through music and prayer and them it was time to get to know our speaker. The reality was that Jeremiah was someone who was recommended to me by a fellow youth guy and so I had no way of knowing how good or not good of a communicator he was. We would soon find out that he had a passionate and warm<span class="full-image-float-right ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://refugehsm.com/storage/188270_10150725069705244_208135300243_19846568_5862387_n.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1311879826256" alt="" /></span><span class="thumbnail-caption" style="width: 250px;">Jeremiah Aja aka "the speaker"</span></span>&nbsp;way of communicating God's truth in such a way that it stuck with you. He was a phenomenal communicator and incredible speaker!</p>
<p>Our theme for the week was "The Great Reversal" and the heart of the week was to change students perspectives from seeing themselves through the way the world sees them and start seeing themselves through the way God views them.&nbsp;</p>
<p>Jeremiah gave us two examples of how we can live. The first is by trying to seek the approval of man and live the "social pyramid." The result is that while we may be seen as popular or successful now, ultimately that path will lead to pain and eternal consequences. The second way he talked about living is in light of Philppians 2, where Christ humbled himself to the point of death and as a result, he was exalted by God. In essence we have to choose what we want our journey to be.&nbsp;</p>
<p>In light of this theme, Jeremiah hit on topics like, "You are God's BeloVed," "You are InVited to the Celebration Party," "God is a God of Grace," and that we are often "Envious of God's Generosity." We see time and time again that God isn't fair and this is a beautiful reality for those of us who can Him Lord. &nbsp;Chapels were a huge highlight of the week and everyone walked away from the week challenged in their faith and the life they live.&nbsp;</p>
<p>Soon after chapel got out and the students had a chance to go back to their cabin's and talk about the message, it was night game time! Monday Night's game was an MLBC classic, Counselor Hunt. We gave all the staff random point values and made it a battle of the classes, the class with the most points wins. Some leaders were pretty creative with how to hid. Some leaders buried themselves in brush (only to get stepped on), some stuffed themselves in trash cans (only to despise this choice), and others just hid in plain site, just so they could get out of the rain. Once most everyone was found it was bed time and a chance to sleep after a long day of camp!&nbsp;</p>
<p>Most of the week was just like monday. Fun activities, great worship, powerful speaking, free time, night games, and getting to know new friends. However, we took a major detour on wednesday and headed up to the Rouge River for a day of rafting! This would be a huge highlight of the week, but most of our students shivered at the sound of getting thrown into and splashed by 52 degree water. While the water was cold, outside it was a perfect 85 degrees. For about three hours, students &nbsp;and leaders soaked each other, paddled until their arms fell off, and were occasionally assaulted by friendly trees.</p>
<p>One time in particular, my boat decided that we should go right at the split rather then left (like I encouraged). I said, "if we go right, we will end up in the trees!" They thought that sounded like fun even thought I told them the trees always win. So we went right and went straight into the branches of a group of low hanging trees. Fortunately everyone got down into the boat and no one was hurt, but it is often wise to listen to those who might know best.&nbsp;</p>
<p><span class="full-image-float-left ssNonEditable"><span><img style="width: 200px;" src="http://refugehsm.com/storage/281868_10150725056410244_208135300243_19846327_7764795_n.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1311882579022" alt="" /></span></span>There were many other highlights of the week and most of them revolved around how God was working and moving in the lives of the students. There is something powerful about seeing God get ahold of a student's life and start to shape them into the man or women that He desires for them to be. It is like the beautiful analogy that we often see through scripture about the potter and the clay. Some times we just need to take ourselves out of our normal world and into the beauty of God's creation in order to be softened up a bit. Life experience has a way of hardening us to the reality of God's ever present work in our lives and camp can serve as a means to awakening His work in us.&nbsp;</p>
<p>Thursday night around the camp fire was one of those memorable times when you get to sit back and listen to the stories of lives that will never be the same again. During that time students shared about camp. Some talked about relationships that were restored and others about their new best friends. Some students shared how they finally got a glimpse of what the Creator of the Universe thinks about them. Some just told crazy stories and made us laugh as they recalled the memories that were made at camp. Most of all, we got to sit around as the body of Christ and unashamedly share in one of the most beautiful and spontaneous times of music worship I had ever been a part of. Students shared an overwhelming excitement for their God, their Lord, their Lover, and their Father.&nbsp;</p>
<p>It will be hard to top this year at camp ever again, but that is what makes camp so beautiful! It is not about having the best time, the funniest memories, the craziest stories, or the worst sleep ever. It is simply about pointing students toward The Great Unchangeable I am, who is InViting us to join Him at the greatest celebration of all time, eternity. That feast may include thousands of peanut butter and jelly sandwiches or endless bowls of lucky charms. However, the only thing that maters is that you show up ready to be once again blown away by the God of grace who calls us His beloVed.&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>]]></content></entry><entry><title>Welcome to the New Website!</title><id>http://refugehsm.com/blog/2011/7/28/welcome-to-the-new-website.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://refugehsm.com/blog/2011/7/28/welcome-to-the-new-website.html"/><author><name>Refuge High School Ministry</name></author><published>2011-07-28T18:45:41Z</published><updated>2011-07-28T18:45:41Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p>Hey Refuge students and parents!! Welcome to the brand new Refuge website!! As you look around, you will find lots of really cool new features and pages!! One of the ones I am most excited about is the News Feed and The Wall. Two resources that will be instrumental in keep everyone up to date and engaged in what is happening at Refuge!! The purpose of the site is to give you a resource that will help you be an instrumental part of our community. At Refuge, we are all about discipleship and believe that it happens best when you are connected into a group like Refuge. That is why we hope this will help you to be more connected to Refuge!&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://refugehsm.com/the-wall/">The Wall</a></strong>&nbsp;is an online community and place for students to be transparent with each other. This is a community based area that will allow students to ask tough questions, encourage one another, and talk about what God is doing in their lives!! In order to access this, just go to Members and Register to be a Member of this site. This will allow you to access The Wall and Pictures from events!&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>The New Feed</strong>&nbsp;is also a really cool resource that will keep you up do date on everything happening at Refuge! This will be where we announce News and help you to feel like you are a in the know about all things Refuge. The hope would be that you will be well informed and that you will be even more connected into what is happening at Refuge!&nbsp;</p>
<p>Another great features is a place that you will be able to go online to&nbsp;<a href="http://refugehsm.com/register/">Register</a>&nbsp;for upcoming events!!&nbsp;</p>
<p>As always, let me know if you have any concerns or any questions, I would love to help you! You can simply fill out an "ask us" section in the FAQ section of the website and it will get sent right to us!!&nbsp;</p>
<p>Enjoy the New Refuge Website!!&nbsp;</p>]]></content></entry><entry><title>A Look Ahead to the Fall</title><id>http://refugehsm.com/blog/2011/7/28/a-look-ahead-to-the-fall.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://refugehsm.com/blog/2011/7/28/a-look-ahead-to-the-fall.html"/><author><name>Refuge High School Ministry</name></author><published>2011-07-28T18:39:27Z</published><updated>2011-07-28T18:39:27Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<h5 style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: 110%;"><span style="white-space: pre;"> </span>This Fall we are kicking off a brand new theme called "Roots." The whole year we will be spending talking about how to develop a solid foundation. We see this idea in Psalm 1 where David talks about being like a tree planted by a stream of water. The idea being that we will only be as spiritually healthy as the roots that support us. We see this idea in how God created the earth. Plants that have good soil and a source of water are often the most healthy. What is true for creation is also true for our souls.&nbsp;</span></h5>
<h5 style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: 110%;"><span style="white-space: pre;"> </span>We also see Jesus teach on this in his parables. It is the seed that is planted in good soil that produces a harvest of righteousness. For me, the relational reality of the gospel is that we surround ourselves with good people, as well as have a understanding of what it is to follow Christ.&nbsp;</span></h5>
<h5 style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: 110%;"><span style="white-space: pre;"> </span>It is important that we take time to make sure that we have a solid foundation in our faith and that we are living in a way that we are building up our faith! We will do this in not only our regular programs, but we will also focus on this during our trips!!</span></h5>
<h5 style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: 110%;"><span style="white-space: pre;"> </span>All of our events have the purpose in mind of equipping students as disciples of Christ and connecting them relationally. We have three trips annually which serve this purpose. Our Fall Retreat, the Mission Trip, and Summer Camp. These are all trip that are crucial to building community and encouraging one another in Christ. They are all intentional on discipleship and spiritual growth!&nbsp;</span></h5>
<h5 style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: 110%;">Roots Retreat- October 21-23, 2011 at Dream Mountain Christian Camp.&nbsp;</span></h5>
<h5 style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: 110%;">Mission Trip- March 31st-April 7th, 2012 in Orange Cove, CA&nbsp;</span></h5>
<h5 style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: 110%;">High School Camp- July 15-20, 2012 at Mountain Lakes Bible Camp&nbsp;</span></h5>
<h5 style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: 110%;"><span style="white-space: pre;"> </span>While these are our big events, we also have a lot of other great activities and events that will be happening! We will do a huge Tuesday Night Fall Kick-off event in August, we will do a Murder Mystery Dinner again in September, and we will have a combined Block Party with the all of the other youth in the church.&nbsp;</span></h5>
<h5 style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: 110%;"><span style="white-space: pre;"> </span>While these are all fun and amazing events, we will also have great opportunities for students to be discipled within our regular programs as well. The Gathering is a great place to meet new friends, have a great time of worship, and be challenged with God's truth. Life Groups are a crucial part as well and we will have groups available for all grade to be a part of!&nbsp;</span></h5>
<h5 style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: 110%;"><span style="white-space: pre;"> </span>It is exciting to start to see all of the Fall activities start to take shape and I can not wait to see all that God has in store for the year ahead! I look forward to you being a part of Refuge and more importantly, seek to grow in your understanding and life in Christ.&nbsp;</span></h5>]]></content></entry></feed>
